Monday, February 12, 2007

千刀万剐

看什麽电影连续剧，读什麽书，才能教会我"防身"的本领?怎样才能在人生路上不被人伤害？真的是要凡事不计较不放在心上，不要执著就可以了吗？傻傻乐乐地过?
还是要将人生百味一一尝过?
电影，连续剧都是假的。真实的事会在电影里发生，但演的人都是假的，感情都是假的。出了戏就更假了. 我怎么样借鉴别人的痛苦经历而来避免发生在自己身上呢？
谁能帮我总结一下，我一定背下来。(写的好了,我帮你出书,再拍成电影,怎样?)
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Anonymous said...

Hey my dear,

Why 自言自语 ?

Shall we have a game / test for some fun?

Recalled while you were young, how did you react while your parent / close friends / love ones upset / disappoint you?

1) Show that you're upset. Forget / forgive after their apology.

2) Show that you're upset. Request for a reasonable explanation to decide if forgiveness may be granted.

3) Given they are your love ones and you don't want to make relationship worse. Keep the emotion to yourselves. Slighly react depends on their response.

4) Try to resolve emotion issues on your own and ignore their responses.

to be cont...

3:40 AM
Anonymous said...

Hey my dear,

Why 自言自语 ?

Shall we have a game / test for some fun?

Recalled while you were young, how did you react while your parent / close friends / love ones upset / disappoint you?

1) Show that you're upset. Forget / forgive after their apology.

2) Show that you're upset. Request for a reasonable explanation to decide if forgiveness may be granted.

3) Given they are your love ones and you don't want to make relationship worse. Keep the emotion to yourselves. Slighly react depends on their response.

4) Try to resolve emotion issues on your own and ignore their responses.

to be cont...

3:40 AM
Anonymous said...

被人害能不計較嗎? 受了傷能不放在心上嗎?

百味嘗完之後 能練成什麼功夫?

真真假假 虛虛實實 來來去去 別人的痛 你怎麼借? 借來了 要不要還?

好像有人說過 一群人在一起相處 就像一群刺蝟 毎個人都有刺 在一起就刺來刺去 天天刺的鼻青臉腫 混身是傷

有些人為了不受傷 就把刺給練得特別長 這麼一來 人與人之間的距離就遠了

若是大家都收起刺來 就天下太平 可是 你願意當第一個沒有刺的刺蝟 在眾刺蝟中來往嗎?

沒有刺的刺蝟只敢躲得遠遠的 不被傷害 不傷害人 沒有敵人 沒有朋友 高不高興 快不快樂 只有自己知道

哎 這一輩子 得罪的人可多了 在現實與虛擬 無知或無心 for business and personals. 書讀的不多 電影看了不少 啥也沒學到 只是身上很多疤 也留了一大堆痕在其他人那

電影拍好了 我想看 書就讓給有水準一點的人去讀吧 (這麼寫會不會很傷人啊?)

2:06 PM
tata said...

hi sis,

I actually cannot recall any moment of my childhood that i am upset/disappointed by others. I am always the One make mistakes and caused trouble.
My mom always punished me first and force me to apologize and repent.

So if I need an answer for this question, I would say (4).
I usually cry cry after my mom's punishment.....I was soooo upset and disappointed because I know I will have another run of this next time.....

11:01 PM
tata said...

樓上的小同學
聽你一說,才想起被傷後,我們都會結疤.
疤可以暫時地擋一下鋒利的刺.
疤掉後的皮膚,通常會老(皮厚)一點吧.

11:15 PM

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